Days of my life parenting 3 young kids and dealing with the rest that comes with being a working citizen,wife,mom, pet owner and not forgeting that I'm a lady too!
Hello everyone a long time no write huh?! 🤪 Sorry 😘
Well, it’s that time of the year again when time change is here and you have no clue what to do because when you think about getting the gumption to do things, oh look! Night time is here…and it’s only 5:00 p.m 😲 anyone there with me? 🤚 I can honestly say that right at this moment I feel like a molusc where I want to get out and do stuff( mostly left over stuff from the summer) and at the end I’m like no, I don’t really want to, but life is quick to pass by and if we “I” don’t move for myself no one will right?Let us not leave to do tomorrow what can be done today!!! Let us rejoice we are alive!
Today I was looking at pictures, some people I don’t see a long time, some I’ve lost contact, and I was very sad to see some of them had taken the wrong turn along their life, it bothered, saddened me =(Â I’m a big suck!
I feel so sad specially when I see young people going through the wrong path, no joy, no life, no dreams and no goals ahead! Two feelings come to mind,. 1- SMACK them in the back of the head so they can wake up and see that life is wonderful even when there’s trouble! 2- Hug them so tightly, so they can see that above all troubles, someone is there for them, hug them ’till they see that life is worth living, that troubles will come, but they’ll goand that they will be ok!
Theses days it just feels weird! I don’t know; When I was young, sure! there were those days of boredom, and unhappiness in a teen/youth days, but come on! today is border lining ridiculous! What is it? Hormones? Pesticides? too many material things? egocentric parents? HELLOOOOOOO!
THIS IS THE GENERATION OF TOMORROW? LEADERS?PARENTS? TEACHERS? 0_o What are we doing for them?
Kids getting so involved with drugs, no limits, no education, and I’m not saying the kind of education that you get in school, I’m talking about the REAL one, the one that comes from HOME! Where are the moms? Why aren’t they teaching their little girls to grow and became responsible, respectful, educated ladies, that one day they’ll have a family of their own that will need them? Where are the father’s to teach their son that a “REAL” man has to be responsible, educated, respectful man who has to work and provide not only for themselves but for a family someday? WHERE THE HECK ARE THESE PARENTS? don’t they know that they are the foundation for these kids lives? I must have knocked my head hard on the wall, because it feels like I’m the only one bothered by this! =/Â Â
I was raised by I single parent, and believe me single parents can do a good job just as much as anybody! So right of the bat I rule out that excuse!
I think that our society has to stop with the It’s ok, It’s normal non sense! If we don’t teach our kids when they are small, I’m sorry! they will not learn when they are old! Later is not better! Society is so used to hearing the ol’ “it’s ok”that they don’t even bother to question anymore, and look where kids find themselves now! The word NO never killed anybody! little sally will live another day without her doll!disappointments will not kill her!
Yes, circumstances happen, life sometimes just sucks more to some people…but the way I see is, you have two choices, get up, dust yourself and go on or linger on you sorry behind hoping that anybody that knows you and sees you feels sad and sorry for you! I refuse to live this way! Pity is just a word that doesn’t exist in my vocabulary!
NO! THAT’S UNACCEPTABLE! YOU WERE CREATED TO BE BETTER!
I always talk to my children on our way out, we always have to drive by a cemetery to get to the hwy, And I point out to the tum stones, and I tell them, each and every one of those represents a person, and they would do anything if they could just to be able to have you worst day! their time is done, if they smiled great! If they didn’t, so sad they won’t have the chance anymore, let’s hope they enjoyed their life in the good days and bad days. I think that this generation of irresponsible, disrespectful, lazy people needs a wake up call!!
Sometimes I think that I’m the only old soul in this world lolss! Do I see things other people don’t see? I’m far from perfect and , yes! I have my good awesome days, and I also have my bad horrible days, but the way I see is I have the same two choices I’ve mentioned. I rather choose the 1st for the 2d choice is not going to change anything! This is not me at any moment bashing anybody. I just think that we need a change! God forbid me say that I’m better than anybody, I have 3 children and I know it’s hard, but who Am I to give up on the 3 most precious things God has given me? This is just a “breath out” moment!Â
Come on let’s teach our kids to be good people! Parents we have the power to do that! Let’s teach our kids to do things for themselves, always knowing that in case they need us, we’ll be here for them! Respect and be respected!work hard for what they want!
You sow what you plant! If you don’t like what you are hearing, change what you are screaming!
“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6
So, the feeling is that, if “I” feel so sad to see these kids (anybody below 25 for me are kids! lolss) I can only imagine how God’s heart might feel.Â
Sometimes it’s not going to be a walk in the park to do the right thing, take the right step, but once you do it it’s going to get easier as you go! 😉
15 years ago on this day I made the decision to stay with the most wonderful man I had ever met! the one whom my heart loved! the one who I could picture having my beautiful 3 children with, growing old with despite of anything, through taught times and good times. You are my best friend, the one who takes all my crap, embark in all my craziness, the one that knows me better than anybody else in this world, the one that laugh at my dumbest things. I thank the Lord for your life everyday,every moment ( even when you make me loose my mind lol ) I thank Him (Lord) because He knew better than me, He could see further than my eyes could. I thank the Lord for the love that He put in your heart for me, for our family! That, I never take for granted.
 Thank you for loving me, for caring for me in the good days and the bad days, for understanding me. You are my all I love you to pieces, there’s no tomorrow without you, there’s no planing without you, there’s no me without you! Stuck like glue!
You know if I could I would put you in a bubble, I would and keep you and our children alllllll to my self! basically like the animaniacs little girl =D
We laugh, we cry, we fight everything together, it has been like this and will always be like this, me and you buddy foreeeeeeeeeeeeeeever and everrrr and a lifetime! I love you babes!
Of all the gifts you have always given me that I have enjoyed so much, like my electric blanket awwwww! you surpassed yourself with that beautiful card that until now, I can’t talk much because my eyes start to water.
I love you and I bless you for being this wonderful husband, father, friend, lover, hero.
How personalities can be altered and values can be thrown out?
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                    It just mind boggles me! o_0
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    I have this idea ,that some people are just not meant to have money…get even close to having money, or smell the money! lolss! Yes! I know this is me being a bit of a judge, but please don’t get me wrong, I wish everybody could and should have a better life, but the truth is that, it’s just not meant to be for everyone.
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    I find that people most times misunderstand the meaning of being rich, having a better life. Being rich, having a better life to me means that I have health, I have peace, my children are healthy, I have a job, my bills are paid and nothing is in need at the end of the day. I can lay my head in my pillow and rest in peace! Sure! It would be just wonderful to have millions in a bank account, but that doesn’t make me who I am!
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    Think about it,if money would change the way you behave…You are not meant to have it!
If money would change the way you treat others and see things…You are not meant to have it!
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 Money exists to add to your happiness and give you more possibilities to have an easier life and help others!
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 I see “money” as a complimentary to someone’s happiness, and not the cause responsible for that person’s happiness!
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    A miserable poor person is still going to be a miserable rich person, and sometimes even more miserable! Poor are those who think that if only they had money they would be happy, I truly feel very sorry for those people because in search of happiness they are just going to be deeper and deeper into loneliness and bitterness.
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    Life is good just as it is, if it gets better awesome! (thumbs up) if not well get up earlier the other day and try, try again!!!
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    Let’s not waste time and destroy friendships, family and dreams for money, for everything that me and you have in this earth will stay behind, all you’ll be remembered by is by the kind of person you were when alive!
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LIVE HAPPY – LIVE POOR – LIVE RICH – LIVE LIKE THERE’S NO TOMORROW!
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YOU WERE GRANTED 24HRS IN A DAY MAKE THE BEST OF IT!
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“Why should fools have money in hand to buy wisdom,when they are not able to understand it?”
So, hello everyone! Well where to start, lolsss my 5 yr old Ethan says the darnest things!
I was dressing him on Sunday for us to go to church and you know, we are always running crazy to get out of the house and not be late… so I sat in his room wearing shorts and my bra ( yes that’s me!) and all I see is him looking funny at me oh! I could actually see his brain working lolsss! He turns to me and asks “mommy…why doesn’t girls have a belly button? Now, imagine my face, the confusion in my eyes! I said, yes we do and I pointed to mine. He makes the most sarcastic face and sais No! that’s a hole mommy! And that’s when I realized that he actually thinks that his belly button is normal! lolssss!! He has an outie and by being like that he thinks that his is the normal belly button! I laughed and laughed, but didn’t say anything to him. I love m babies and soon they’ll be all grown up and all I’ll have is memories and memories. I must admit that I hover over my childrens…yes I do, but who cares right?!
Are you yourself or are you someone different to please others?
Are you a friend to be a friend, or are you what others wants you to be?
…there lies the problem.
When we turn ourselves into a complete stranger in order to make someone else happy, or we become untrue friends because if you are your true self people will not accept you. Afraid of the rejection of being yourself.
Do you love “you”?
When you are alone and think about your actions through out the day/days/past, can you say yes, I’m pleased!? (I believe we all have these days of revising all our actions) Have you thought to yourself, maybe I should’ve said I cared…or simply a smile?
How many times you thought “If I only…”
Why not today?
Love today!
Smile today!
say you care, heck!say you don’t care lolss!
Smile!
Love one another, be the friend that you want to be,even if the friendship is not responded the same, but be a friend because YOU want to be and not for what you can get in return!But just for the simple reason that you want to!
Smile always! Never leave for tomorrow to say I love,I care. Tomorrow could be just too late!
Who cares what other people may think of you, You are You! You are made perfect by the eyes of God.Can you imagine if everyone was the same…yuk! :p
You are not here to please the world, some may or may not like you, for those I say, oh well! There’s always going to be someone else, but even then, Smile!
Smile at adversities, jump over the abysm!We are all in a line-up, we all have a number tag and we don’t know when that number will be called, so enjoy you life.
Life’s beauty is made out of smiles,tears,troubles and victories,all these made you who you are! Even with all beauty and worst flaws “He” still thought you were worthy!
Do you know how many miserable bitter people are out there ( I think I meet them everyday lolss =D) simply because of a word unsaid, or a choice that was made wrong and instead of them dealing with, they just blame on others?
You are human, you make mistakes,we fall! Get off your behind! Shake off the dust and start again!
Quitting is not an option! Don’t like it change it!You got today! make the best of it!
One thing I know, that in the end of it all we are all the same! Love more, smile more! Be a friend, say Sorry,forgive!
“A glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.” Proverbs 15:13
Be your true self!
X.O.X.O always!
Bianca.
“I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” Psalms 139:14.
Hello….I’ve been thinking…WOw! Do I set myself for failure sometimes or what?!? I make all these plans and uncountable to do lists and God forbid someone tells me that it’s impossible to be done! My laundry is an unending basket on the basement, I swear the clothes must multiply itself when I leave the house, my house projects (I MEAN HOUSE PROJECTS that most of the time includes my husband’s help…which sometimes explains why it never gets done lolsss) are… let’s say that are so many! My pantry, hellooooo helloooooo hellooooo (eco) where’s my food? why is it that everything must disappear in two days? If there’s one thing that if I could pay somebody to do for me it would be for someone to go grocery shopping…I hate grocery stores, don’t ask me why, but it drives me insane! I know I have 24 hrs a day like everyone else, but it seems like it’s never enough and I catch myself struggling.
I once made the mistake to complain “how I could not understand” that a friend of mine that worked outside of the home didn’t have time to do all the things at home…Have you heard that saying that everything that you complain about someone else comes worst to you… I have to say that now I “must” apologize for being such an awful friend! I sooooooo understand her! lol!!
I love my job, I love my house and to make things worst I AM ADDICTED TO DIY BLOGS! (crying face =,( ) oh nooo! my children are growing Sniff! where did time go? 0_0 I need to make better use of my time.
In the end of the day I’m just glad to be able to look at my beautiful healthy children and my loving husband’s smile and see that we made through the day!!!
If you are just one more of me out there, because don’t lie to yourself, if at any moment when you were reading this blog you thought to yourself “I can relate” guess what?? Welcome to the club!You are a mom! =D
Lesson of the day: whatever was on the yesterday “to do” list, will make it to the next days list if was that important! Live today, and always give you best in everything you do! Everything else will fall into place in the right time! 😉
“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today. Mathew 6:34
X.O.X.O
Bianca.
So I joined the Gym last week…I am dead my body is as mooched as ground beef lolss! So I go take a tour at the gym, Summer is coming and you know we all have those stubborn few pounds that we would not mind throwing away…I say throw away because when you say you lost it, that usually means that you”l find it some day! So I rather say I threw away or gave to someone very skinny hihihihihihihi!
So, I’m there and the girl that works there, very nice girl starts to ask me questions like, what made you come here o.0 automatically half of my brain is like…oh! because I have nothing to do anywhere else, so I decided to kill time here! But don’t worry I did not say that! My better judgement said, because I need to get in shape,Then she asks what was the good choices I make in my day to day _________o.0_______ I froze kkkkkk! And with a blank face I said tell me yours then I’ll say what’s mine, I swear this girl thought I was insane! lolsss so after she explained I said with a full chest that “I drink a lot of water!” lolsss as if that’s so abnormal lolss but hang on I was proud of myself! But that wasn’t the end, than it comes the dreadful question…what’s your worst choice? then I gave up, I said, listen, There’s no reason to lie about it, I’m only fooling myself! I love love love love did I say LOVE? that’s right I love McDonald’s and I’ll tell you something! I’ll work my butt off so I can eat McDonald’s at least once a week…she laughed!! Because she was the same lolssss! I love working out, I love the classes! The teachers are awesome, there’s this one teacher that she looked 20 years old and she screams in class “Come on! I had three children and that was worst than this class…keep in mind we were dying in there lolss and that she doesn’t have an inch of body fat lolsss! I hated her that moment! =D
So, I’m very happy although in pain, the only thing that I wish it was different was to have people that I know so they can come work out with me, I loved working out with one of my sister in laws.
In all this I’m trying to change my life. Change because I have one body,one life and no one but me is responsible for! So I say, come on Summer! =D
“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 And believe you me! I ask for his strength everyday or else I won’t achieve anything! And to Him be all the glory in all that I do!
“Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. ” 3 john 1
It make me sick to know how mean humans can be to animals. I think, if you can’t be caring and love something that’s only goal is to love you and be close to you, believe me, you must have a problem…a character problem! Sure, I understand that there are people that like them, but choose not to have a pet,believe me, I understand and applaud them, better not to have one if you can’t care for them than to have one and be careless and irresponsible.But To those that at the knowledge of you owning a pet they have a look of disgust, You must have something seriously wrong with you.
I’m sorry (but not sorry) if I hear someone tell me that they don’t like any kind of animal, that “all” pets are curses and a bunch of waste of time and demons that you bring to your house…yes, I’ve had people say that to me…and yes! I had the same “WTHeck” look you probably have right now! I honestly will not be close to them, why surround myself with no brain, thoughtless, cold heart ignorant people? My goodness it was as if my brain cells were shorting out at the sound of their voice lolsss, thank God my mother gave me manners all I did was nod my head and speechless. Well, honestly to speak out and be disrespectful and try to explain to them that all creations are good made by God and seem that they were good and that the reason that some animals go bad its not because they are bad, but because they had an ignorant owner wouldn’t matter to them, so sometimes the best thing to do is to be quiet.
“You don’t explain to a grunt how the shovel was made, you give them the shovel and tell them to dig, that’s all! lolsss
” A righteous man regards the life of his beast: but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel”Proverbs 12:10
“And God created great whales, and every living creature that moves, which the waters brought forth abundantly, after their kind, and every winged fowl after his kind: and God saw that it was good.” Genesis 1:21
Maybe just maybe these people should spend a little time learning from these so called “horrible” creatures how to forgive and forget, to simply appreciate each and everyday. To those that abandon and mistreat their pets, I only wish that someone would make them pay, because for them to do such evil things to those animals that cannot fend for themselves they must have some seriously evil things in them. God sees everything and in due time each one of us will answer for every act and choice we make.
what to learn: care for your pets, neuter/spay them NEVER abandon your pets.
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