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Days of my life parenting 3 young kids and dealing with the rest that comes with being a working citizen,wife,mom, pet owner and not forgeting that I'm a lady too!


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Something went wrong a long time ago…

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Today I was looking at pictures, some people I don’t see a long time, some I’ve lost contact, and I was very sad to see some of them had taken the wrong turn along their life, it bothered, saddened me =(  I’m a big suck!

I feel so sad specially when I see young people going through the wrong path, no joy, no life, no dreams and no goals ahead! Two feelings come to mind,. 1- SMACK them in the back of the head so they can wake up and see that life is wonderful even when there’s trouble! 2- Hug them so tightly, so they can see that above all troubles, someone is there for them, hug them ’till they see that life is worth living, that troubles will come, but they’ll goand that they will be ok!

Theses days it just feels weird! I don’t know; When I was young, sure! there were those days of boredom, and unhappiness in a teen/youth days, but come on! today is border lining ridiculous! What is it? Hormones? Pesticides? too many material things? egocentric  parents? HELLOOOOOOO!

THIS IS THE GENERATION OF TOMORROW? LEADERS?PARENTS? TEACHERS? 0_o  What are we doing for them?

Kids getting so involved with drugs, no limits, no education, and I’m not saying the kind of education that you get in school, I’m talking about the REAL one, the one that comes from HOME! Where are the moms? Why aren’t they teaching their little girls to grow and became responsible, respectful, educated ladies, that one day they’ll have a family of their own that will need them? Where are the father’s to teach their son that a “REAL” man has to be responsible, educated, respectful man who has to work and provide not only for themselves but for a family someday? WHERE THE HECK ARE THESE PARENTS? don’t they know that they are the foundation for these kids lives? I must have knocked my head hard on the wall, because it feels like I’m the only one bothered by this! =/  

I was raised by I single parent, and believe me single parents can do a good job just as much as anybody! So right of the bat I rule out that excuse!

I think that our society has to stop with the It’s ok, It’s normal non sense! If we don’t teach our kids when they are small, I’m sorry! they will not learn when they are old! Later is not better! Society is so used to hearing the ol’ “it’s ok”that they don’t even bother to question anymore, and look where kids find themselves now! The word NO never killed anybody! little sally will live another day without her doll!disappointments will not kill her!

Yes, circumstances happen, life sometimes just sucks more to some people…but the way I see is, you have two choices, get up, dust yourself and go on or linger on you sorry behind hoping that anybody that knows you and sees you feels sad and sorry for you! I refuse to live this way! Pity is just a word that doesn’t exist in my vocabulary!

NO! THAT’S UNACCEPTABLE! YOU WERE CREATED TO BE BETTER!

I always talk to my children on our way out, we always have to drive by a cemetery to get to the hwy, And I point out to the tum stones, and I tell them, each and every one of those represents a person, and they would do anything if they could  just to be able to have you worst day! their time is done, if they smiled great! If they didn’t, so sad they won’t have the chance anymore, let’s hope they enjoyed their life in the good days and bad days. I think that this generation of irresponsible, disrespectful, lazy people needs a wake up call!!

Sometimes I think that I’m the only old soul in this world lolss! Do I see things other people don’t see? I’m far from perfect and , yes! I have my good awesome days, and I also have my bad horrible days, but the way I see is I have the same two choices I’ve mentioned. I rather choose the 1st for the 2d choice is not going to change anything! This is not me at any moment bashing anybody. I just think that we need a change! God forbid me say that I’m better than anybody, I have 3 children and I know it’s hard, but who Am I to give up on the 3 most precious things God has given me? This is just a “breath out” moment! 

Come on let’s teach our kids to be good people! Parents we have the power to do that! Let’s teach our kids to do things for themselves, always knowing that in case they need us,  we’ll be here for them! Respect and be respected!work hard for what they want!

You sow what you plant! If you don’t like what you are hearing, change what you are screaming!

“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6

So, the feeling is that, if “I” feel so sad to see these kids (anybody below 25 for me are kids! lolss) I can only imagine how God’s heart might feel. 

Sometimes it’s not going to be a walk in the park to do the right thing, take the right step, but once you do it it’s going to get easier as you go! 😉

We all were created to be greater!

Read me next time! X.O

Bianca!

…because laughing is the best feeling!

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...because laughing is the best feeling!

Good morning everybody!! Is the time change bothering you as much as is bothering me ? Oh my gosh I look like a train wreck today lolsss! so bad that I feel like going to the gym RIGHT NOW!

My family is a crazy funny family! We laugh, we cry, we fight,but in the end we are all we have! Yesterday my husband saw the biggest raccoon ever in my backyard and with that brought memories of a time when I lived in T.O and my aunt and my brother came to visit me, and she accidentally ran over a raccoon, my brother was so shocked and she didn’t even stop lols! now, I don’t know if was out of shock or fear lolsss and I can actually imagine my brothers face lolssss than that brought back memories when I was young and a good childhood friend of ours were riding a bike at the park and suddenly he ran over a chipmunk, lolsss keep in mind we love animals all kinds of animals! Our friend was so chocked and so sad that he made my brother stop and sing the national anthem to the poor dead chipmunk hahahahahaha!Now, imagine two 12-13 boys standing beside a dead chipmonk holding their bikes and one of them singing the Oh! Canada! hilarious and sad at the same moment! = D Yes we care like that!

Childhood is something so important,I wish my children would have the same childhood me my brother and cousin had,we were free! No worries about anything, kids were kids, unfortunately it’s not like that now, or its just a motherly worry ? Well, yes! I worry about everything… I want my children to experience life, play as much as they can and laugh it off at the simplest things, for will come a time, anytime soon that they will grow (against my will, lolss just because I wish they stayed babies forever) and with adulthood comes worries and responsibilities,but for now, lets enjoy laughing away! =)

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens” Ecclesiastes 3:1

Well have a nice day everyone!

Cheerio’s

Bianca.