zerotimeoffmom

Days of my life parenting 3 young kids and dealing with the rest that comes with being a working citizen,wife,mom, pet owner and not forgeting that I'm a lady too!

Gym Gym Gym!!

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Gym Gym Gym!!

So I joined the Gym last week…I am dead my body is as mooched as ground beef lolss! So I go take a tour at the gym, Summer is coming and you know we all have those stubborn few pounds that we would not mind throwing away…I say throw away because when you say you lost it, that usually means that you”l find it some day! So I rather say I threw away or gave to someone very skinny hihihihihihihi!
So, I’m there and the girl that works there, very nice girl starts to ask me questions like, what made you come here o.0 automatically half of my brain is like…oh! because I have nothing to do anywhere else, so I decided to kill time here! But don’t worry I did not say that! My better judgement said, because I need to get in shape,Then she asks what was the good choices I make in my day to day _________o.0_______ I froze kkkkkk! And with a blank face I said tell me yours then I’ll say what’s mine, I swear this girl thought I was insane! lolsss so after she explained I said with a full chest that “I drink a lot of water!” lolsss as if that’s so abnormal lolss but hang on I was proud of myself! But that wasn’t the end, than it comes the dreadful question…what’s your worst choice? then I gave up, I said, listen, There’s no reason to lie about it, I’m only fooling myself! I love love love love did I say LOVE? that’s right I love McDonald’s and I’ll tell you something! I’ll work my butt off so I can eat McDonald’s at least once a week…she laughed!! Because she was the same lolssss! I love working out, I love the classes! The teachers are awesome, there’s this one teacher that she looked 20 years old and she screams in class “Come on! I had three children and that was worst than this class…keep in mind we were dying in there lolss and that she doesn’t have an inch of body fat lolsss! I hated her that moment! =D
So, I’m very happy although in pain, the only thing that I wish it was different was to have people that I know so they can come work out with me, I loved working out with one of my sister in laws.

In all this I’m trying to change my life. Change because I have one body,one life and no one but me is responsible for! So I say, come on Summer! =D

“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 And believe you me! I ask for his strength everyday or else I won’t achieve anything! And to Him be all the glory in all that I do!

“Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. ” 3 john 1

Ignorance it’s not always a bliss!

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Ignorance it's not always a bliss!

It make me sick to know how mean humans can be to animals. I think, if you can’t be caring and love something that’s only goal is to love you and be close to you, believe me, you must have a problem…a character problem! Sure, I understand that there are people that like them, but choose not to have a pet,believe me, I understand and applaud them, better not to have one if you can’t care for them than to have one and be careless and irresponsible.But To those that at the knowledge of you owning a pet they have a look of disgust, You must have something seriously wrong with you.
I’m sorry (but not sorry) if I hear someone tell me that they don’t like any kind of animal, that “all” pets are curses and a bunch of waste of time and demons that you bring to your house…yes, I’ve had people say that to me…and yes! I had the same “WTHeck” look you probably have right now! I honestly will not be close to them, why surround myself with no brain, thoughtless, cold heart ignorant people? My goodness it was as if my brain cells were shorting out at the sound of their voice lolsss, thank God my mother gave me manners all I did was nod my head and speechless. Well, honestly to speak out and be disrespectful and try to explain to them that all creations are good made by God and seem that they were good and that the reason that some animals go bad its not because they are bad, but because they had an ignorant owner wouldn’t matter to them, so sometimes the best thing to do is to be quiet.

“You don’t explain to a grunt how the shovel was made, you give them the shovel and tell them to dig, that’s all! lolsss

” A righteous man regards the life of his beast: but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel”Proverbs 12:10

“And God created great whales, and every living creature that moves, which the waters brought forth abundantly, after their kind, and every winged fowl after his kind: and God saw that it was good.” Genesis 1:21

Maybe just maybe these people should spend a little time learning from these so called “horrible” creatures how to forgive and forget, to simply appreciate each and everyday. To those that abandon and mistreat their pets, I only wish that someone would make them pay, because for them to do such evil things to those animals that cannot fend for themselves they must have some seriously evil things in them. God sees everything and in due time each one of us will answer for every act and choice we make.

what to learn: care for your pets, neuter/spay them NEVER abandon your pets.

Bia.

…because laughing is the best feeling!

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...because laughing is the best feeling!

Good morning everybody!! Is the time change bothering you as much as is bothering me ? Oh my gosh I look like a train wreck today lolsss! so bad that I feel like going to the gym RIGHT NOW!

My family is a crazy funny family! We laugh, we cry, we fight,but in the end we are all we have! Yesterday my husband saw the biggest raccoon ever in my backyard and with that brought memories of a time when I lived in T.O and my aunt and my brother came to visit me, and she accidentally ran over a raccoon, my brother was so shocked and she didn’t even stop lols! now, I don’t know if was out of shock or fear lolsss and I can actually imagine my brothers face lolssss than that brought back memories when I was young and a good childhood friend of ours were riding a bike at the park and suddenly he ran over a chipmunk, lolsss keep in mind we love animals all kinds of animals! Our friend was so chocked and so sad that he made my brother stop and sing the national anthem to the poor dead chipmunk hahahahahaha!Now, imagine two 12-13 boys standing beside a dead chipmonk holding their bikes and one of them singing the Oh! Canada! hilarious and sad at the same moment! = D Yes we care like that!

Childhood is something so important,I wish my children would have the same childhood me my brother and cousin had,we were free! No worries about anything, kids were kids, unfortunately it’s not like that now, or its just a motherly worry ? Well, yes! I worry about everything… I want my children to experience life, play as much as they can and laugh it off at the simplest things, for will come a time, anytime soon that they will grow (against my will, lolss just because I wish they stayed babies forever) and with adulthood comes worries and responsibilities,but for now, lets enjoy laughing away! =)

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens” Ecclesiastes 3:1

Well have a nice day everyone!

Cheerio’s

Bianca.

Morning bliss? I would say morning miss!

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Morning bliss? I would say morning miss!

Oh boy! why is it so hard for me to get out of the house every morning? no matter how early I wake up, not matter what I do, I/we just seem to get stuck in the last minute! It’s like a soccer game that at the last minute of the last period and the last kick annnnndddd you miss! like a mule that resists to get out of the house lolsss! Sometimes I have to admit I feel like sleeping in the car to see if it moves faster, and not to complain my cell phone likes to play hide and seek, does yours do that? At the moment I just feel like throwing my arms into the air and saying screw it! and take a deep breath! I think schools should start at 10 a.m everyday and finish at 5p.m imagine that! Kids wouldn’t be grumpy, moms wouldn’t look like a car wrecks when they drop their lovely children at school awww how beautiful that would be! because I tell you if I could only take pictures of the moms at 8:30 in the morning and at 3:00 p.m you would not recognize any of them lolss…starting with me! hahahahaha specially those (like me) at 8:47 a.m (school starts 8:45) it’s just so funny! After I drop my beautiful children it’s like I get numb, my body goes through a whirlwind of emotions to calm it self down I get emotional because I looked and spoke like a crazy maniac and I just wish to make things different the next day! In all I do not complain because in a time very soon my children will grow and will need less of me and I know for sure I’m going to miss these hectic mornings, so yes, they drive me crazy sometimes and I know for sure I drive them crazy too but this is my family the one I love soooo sooo much!! Off to work I go! Hopefully tomorrow is a better beginning! =D

Have a beautiful day everyone

Bianca.

Lesson of today: MANAGE MY TIME BETTER! I have 24 hours in a day like everyone else so I must make better use of it! 😉

“This is the day that the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it!”
Psalm 118:24

where’s my eggs???

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where's my eggs???

Good morning! It’s saturdayyy uhuuuuu! Nah, I still have to work! Lolss! but it’s ok I choose to look in the brighter side that it’s not that cold!

Now, I’ve told myself that I wasn’t going to write anything about it, just because I thought I was having a bad day yesterday and that was probably why everything that had to go wrong, went wrong…but no, today it happened again! Why can’t McDonald’s employees get any orders right? for goodness sake!All they have to do is press a button in the computer! Yesterday I spent almost 35 min in the drive through (no! I couldn’t leave, not only because I had 3 screaming chicks called my children in the back but I was also blocked in the narrow corridor that they make it in purpose so you can’t run away) just to get to the window! And yet when I finally got to pay she didn’t have a clue of what I wanted! I had to repeat the same thing 3 times and guess what?? they got it wrong! KILL ME NOWWWWW! I wanted to puke in stress lols! I just wanted to get home and crawl in to my bed with my electric blanket!
So, today is a new day! I gotta get my daughter to the science fair competition I am so proud of her! we passed by Mcd’s again…I know, we are gold fishes and we have a good heart to forgive…only to have it mistaken again lol! We ordered breakfast…doesn’t the word “breakfast” means something to do with eggs? Well, they didn’t think so! lolss where’s my eggs? o_0

listen, if you can’t work at McDonald’s, I think they should just put you down as guinea pigs for testing lolsss, and believe me my guinea pigs are more intelligent than some people that works there! In the end I got a coupon for their mistakes…uhhh….Thank you…but the case is not that, I’m more than glad to pay for my order,my right order! Anyways, I just had to write this to vent a little .No! I’ll still go there and just hope for the best lolss just because it’s so yummy! I know it’s not good for you, but have you had McDonald after a loooong day? You know you want to!!!

Have an awesome weekend!

Bia.

When it’s gone…

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When it's gone...

“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.” Exodos 20:5

Today I started a little bit different, I was driving and thinking and I constantly ask myself why are we so selfish that we only tend to care for things once they are gone, and it never seems like we learn right? it’s like we have the memory of a gold fish!

Why do we have to go through tough times to kinda get the picture that NO we cannot and were not made to live by ourselves with ourselves?!

I find that after I turned 34 I just don’t care, I will say whatever I like and whatever I don’t like it ( my husband says that my filter is broken lolsss) I have one life to live, why keep it in? why leave it for another day what I can say today?

“I Love you – I’m upset – I’m mad – I’m scared – I’m proud of you or simply I don’t give a care in the world!” why do we make these words so hard to say? And usually when we decide to say something…it’sjust too late! =/

I sure understand that for everything that you do and say will open up a door that sometimes you might not like it, but again, what good does it do to keep it to yourself? There’s always a way to say things and yes I know sometimes silence is just the best way. I’m not talking about hurting and insulting someone…sorry lolsss! I mean that we should take care of what’s important to us like our parents, our family our friends and in my case a whole lot of pets lolssss! How many chances goes by everyday to tell a loved one that we cared and we always leave it for tomorrow when tomorrow does not belong to us? I sure have left things unsaid and regret it and still regret ’til today =S.

I was taking a long shower yesterday after my hecktic day and a thought popped up to my mind…Have you stopped and gave a thought in all the bad/unfortunatelly things that has happened to you, and that it only happenned when you are about to say that you’re back on your feet completely. Do you know why? I know why, the Holy Spirit brought the answer to my heart that this happens so you can understand that you are Not in charge of anything in your life! You can’t control anything! Time doesn’t belong to you, everything is in God’s hand and He decides “what where and when!” and that made me think…WOW!

I’ve heard some people say that so famous sentence….”you’ll pay when you die”.( imagine that said with a dart vader voice)…I say You pay now, life has a way to teach us that we are not better than anybody. If you mistreat someone, don’t worry life will make you need that person again. So why spend time with a grudge or being sad at someone, Hate is a poison that only hurts the person that is angry no the one you are angry with! I think it’s ok for you to be mad at the moment, than we have to stop take a deep breath and move on! lolss not only because anger makes us fat….and honestly who wants to be fat lolssss!!

So, the lesson is that, time doesn’t come back let we not waste our precious time with non-sence, lets love and be beloved! Jump and praise for you are alive and well, there’s many that didn’t get to wake up today! Let’s not wait for a sad moment to define to us what was important, enjoy – laugh – cry and then laugh again!

“Let everything that has breath praise the Lord.” Psalm 150:6

Praise the Lord you made it today!!! =D

Have an awesome day!!!

Bia.

With every morning comes a new sun…

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With every morning comes a new sun...

Sorry for my latest posts being so down for what some people may say, but I’m having a bit of a rough week, but in everything I give thanks, I give thanks for the troubles and tribulations and I give thanks for the joy!

Today I lost an aunt in Brazil due to heart failure, but what upsets me the most is that she died waiting for a hospital room so she could have heart surgery. What world are we living in that soccer is more important than a human life? What the heck are they doing spending so much money in stadiums and more stadiums when hospitals are falling apart, people are waiting on the hospital floor due to not having beds for the ill? dying everyday of disease and violence? Who are they trying to fool? They (government) wants to paint a picture of a beautiful country with the best stadiums and beaches to the world…oh, yes, they are painting that picture with the populations blood, that what they are! I’m very upset to loose someone’s life not because it’s my aunt, but because I know that everyday this is happening! What are we the population doing? let we not be fooled by carnival and the Olympics. HELLOOOOOO wake up Brazil! When are going to stop being used to walk in the streets in fear? Yes, we are good at soccer and we have a beautiful country, and yes we know how to enjoy and have fun, but let us not be fooled, there’s more to us than that! where are the jobs? Why are we getting dr’s from outside when we can invest in our own people? Why is it that we never have money for hospital and Dr’s but we have millions for stadiums? God forbid something happen to the athletes from outside, what if we made them go through the fiasco that the regular population has to go through to get to a Dr! Hum?

I guess we must be stupid to accept and live this way! =/

Where’s the respect towards your neighbor?How important is someone’s life? What value do they have? To me, all they (government) show is that we are merely people that means nothing and is worth nothing!
What good does it do to have a beautiful city and beautiful beaches full of thieves everywhere? When honest hard working citizens take the bus to go to work and you don’t know if you are going to be robbed, rapped or if you are actually coming home. Are we playing a game of Russian roulette?

Don’t get me wrong, I love my country! Yes, it is beautiful, and yes I wish it would be safe for me to go back and live forever with my family there, but unfortunately and sadly it isn’t! No beach and beauty in the world would make me take a chance to live without security. No, no party will blind my eyes and make me accept that! Maybe I just want to go back to that Brazil that I left 23 years ago… I just wish that things would be different!

To my family, I leave my condolences and I hope no one has to go through this again. I feel your pain,and I wish I could be there. R.I.P aunt Vanda.

To the friends and people I know the lesson to be learned here is that we should value the people that are important to us everyday, never leave for tomorrow what can be done today! tell them you care TODAY! Love and live every second of the day! Fight for what you want!

Yesterday is gone, Tomorrow belongs to God, so live today by the Grace of God and do good unto others

Bia.