zerotimeoffmom

Days of my life parenting 3 young kids and dealing with the rest that comes with being a working citizen,wife,mom, pet owner and not forgeting that I'm a lady too!


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Interesting…

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Is in it interesting how money can change things?
 
How personalities can be altered and values can be thrown out?
                                         
                     It just mind boggles me!  o_0
 
     I  have this idea ,that some people are just not meant to have money…get even close to having money, or smell the money! lolss! Yes! I know this is me being a bit of a judge, but please don’t get me wrong, I wish everybody could and should have a better life, but the truth is that, it’s just not meant to be for everyone.
 
     I find that people most times misunderstand the meaning of being rich, having a better life. Being rich, having a better life to me means that I have health, I have peace, my children are healthy, I have a job, my bills are paid and  nothing is in need at the end of the day. I can lay my head in my pillow and rest in peace! Sure! It would be just wonderful to have millions in a bank account, but that doesn’t make me who I am!
 
     Think about it,if money would change the way you behave…You are not meant to have it!
If money would change the way you treat others and see things…You are not meant to have it!
 
 Money exists to add to your happiness and give you more possibilities to have an easier life and help others!
 
  I see  “money” as a complimentary to someone’s happiness, and not the cause responsible for that person’s happiness!
 
     A miserable poor person is still going to be a miserable rich person, and sometimes even more miserable! Poor are those who think that if only they had money they would be happy, I truly feel very sorry for those people because in search of happiness they are just going to be deeper and deeper into loneliness and bitterness.
 
     Life is good just as it is, if it gets better awesome! (thumbs up) if not well get up earlier the other day and try, try again!!!
 
     Let’s not waste time and destroy friendships, family and dreams for money, for everything that me and you have in this earth will stay behind, all you’ll be remembered by is by the kind of person you were when alive!
 
LIVE HAPPY – LIVE POOR – LIVE RICH – LIVE LIKE THERE’S NO TOMORROW!
 
YOU WERE GRANTED 24HRS IN A DAY MAKE THE BEST OF IT!
 
“Why should fools have money in hand to buy wisdom,when they are not able to understand it?”
PROVERBS 17:16
 
Well, I’ll leave at that!
 
Bianca.
 
 

Smile.

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Smile.

Are you yourself or are you someone different to please others?
Are you a friend to be a friend, or are you what others wants you to be?

…there lies the problem.

When we turn ourselves into a complete stranger in order to make someone else happy, or we become untrue friends because if you are your true self people will not accept you. Afraid of the rejection of being yourself.
Do you love “you”?

When you are alone and think about your actions through out the day/days/past, can you say yes, I’m pleased!? (I believe we all have these days of revising all our actions) Have you thought to yourself, maybe I should’ve said I cared…or simply a smile?

How many times you thought “If I only…”
Why not today?

Love today!
Smile today!
say you care, heck!say you don’t care lolss!
Smile!

Love one another, be the friend that you want to be,even if the friendship is not responded the same, but be a friend because YOU want to be and not for what you can get in return!But just for the simple reason that you want to!
Smile always! Never leave for tomorrow to say I love,I care. Tomorrow could be just too late!
Who cares what other people may think of you, You are You! You are made perfect by the eyes of God.Can you imagine if everyone was the same…yuk! :p
You are not here to please the world, some may or may not like you, for those I say, oh well! There’s always going to be someone else, but even then, Smile!
Smile at adversities, jump over the abysm!We are all in a line-up, we all have a number tag and we don’t know when that number will be called, so enjoy you life.
Life’s beauty is made out of smiles,tears,troubles and victories,all these made you who you are! Even with all beauty and worst flaws “He” still thought you were worthy!
Do you know how many miserable bitter people are out there ( I think I meet them everyday lolss =D) simply because of a word unsaid, or a choice that was made wrong and instead of them dealing with, they just blame on others?
You are human, you make mistakes,we fall! Get off your behind! Shake off the dust and start again!

Quitting is not an option! Don’t like it change it!You got today! make the best of it!

One thing I know, that in the end of it all we are all the same! Love more, smile more! Be a friend, say Sorry,forgive!

“A glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.” Proverbs 15:13
Be your true self!

X.O.X.O always!

Bianca.

“I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” Psalms 139:14.