zerotimeoffmom

Days of my life parenting 3 young kids and dealing with the rest that comes with being a working citizen,wife,mom, pet owner and not forgeting that I'm a lady too!


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Right out of my 5 yr old’s mind =P

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So, hello everyone! Well where to start, lolsss my 5 yr old Ethan says the darnest things!

I was dressing him on Sunday for us to go to church and you know, we are always running crazy to get out of the house and not be late… so I sat in his room wearing shorts and my bra ( yes that’s me!) and all I see is him looking funny at me oh! I could actually see his brain working lolsss! He turns to me and asks “mommy…why doesn’t girls have a belly button? Now, imagine my face, the confusion in my eyes! I said, yes we do and I pointed to mine. He makes the most sarcastic face and sais No! that’s a hole mommy! And that’s when I realized that he actually thinks that his belly button is normal! lolssss!! He has an outie and by being like that he thinks that his is the normal belly button! I laughed and laughed, but didn’t say anything to him. I love m babies and soon they’ll be all grown up and all I’ll have is memories and memories. I must admit that I hover over my childrens…yes I do, but who cares right?!

Wonderful is the innocence in a child’s mind!

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Smile.

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Smile.

Are you yourself or are you someone different to please others?
Are you a friend to be a friend, or are you what others wants you to be?

…there lies the problem.

When we turn ourselves into a complete stranger in order to make someone else happy, or we become untrue friends because if you are your true self people will not accept you. Afraid of the rejection of being yourself.
Do you love “you”?

When you are alone and think about your actions through out the day/days/past, can you say yes, I’m pleased!? (I believe we all have these days of revising all our actions) Have you thought to yourself, maybe I should’ve said I cared…or simply a smile?

How many times you thought “If I only…”
Why not today?

Love today!
Smile today!
say you care, heck!say you don’t care lolss!
Smile!

Love one another, be the friend that you want to be,even if the friendship is not responded the same, but be a friend because YOU want to be and not for what you can get in return!But just for the simple reason that you want to!
Smile always! Never leave for tomorrow to say I love,I care. Tomorrow could be just too late!
Who cares what other people may think of you, You are You! You are made perfect by the eyes of God.Can you imagine if everyone was the same…yuk! :p
You are not here to please the world, some may or may not like you, for those I say, oh well! There’s always going to be someone else, but even then, Smile!
Smile at adversities, jump over the abysm!We are all in a line-up, we all have a number tag and we don’t know when that number will be called, so enjoy you life.
Life’s beauty is made out of smiles,tears,troubles and victories,all these made you who you are! Even with all beauty and worst flaws “He” still thought you were worthy!
Do you know how many miserable bitter people are out there ( I think I meet them everyday lolss =D) simply because of a word unsaid, or a choice that was made wrong and instead of them dealing with, they just blame on others?
You are human, you make mistakes,we fall! Get off your behind! Shake off the dust and start again!

Quitting is not an option! Don’t like it change it!You got today! make the best of it!

One thing I know, that in the end of it all we are all the same! Love more, smile more! Be a friend, say Sorry,forgive!

“A glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.” Proverbs 15:13
Be your true self!

X.O.X.O always!

Bianca.

“I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” Psalms 139:14.

tic toc goes the clock!

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tic toc goes the clock!

Hello….I’ve been thinking…WOw! Do I set myself for failure sometimes or what?!? I make all these plans and uncountable to do lists and God forbid someone tells me that it’s impossible to be done! My laundry is an unending basket on the basement, I swear the clothes must multiply itself when I leave the house, my house projects (I MEAN HOUSE PROJECTS that most of the time includes my husband’s help…which sometimes explains why it never gets done lolsss) are… let’s say that are so many! My pantry, hellooooo helloooooo hellooooo (eco) where’s my food? why is it that everything must disappear in two days? If there’s one thing that if I could pay somebody to do for me it would be for someone to go grocery shopping…I hate grocery stores, don’t ask me why, but it drives me insane! I know I have 24 hrs a day like everyone else, but it seems like it’s never enough and I catch myself struggling.
I once made the mistake to complain “how I could not understand” that a friend of mine that worked outside of the home didn’t have time to do all the things at home…Have you heard that saying that everything that you complain about someone else comes worst to you… I have to say that now I “must” apologize for being such an awful friend! I sooooooo understand her! lol!!
I love my job, I love my house and to make things worst I AM ADDICTED TO DIY BLOGS! (crying face =,( ) oh nooo! my children are growing Sniff! where did time go? 0_0 I need to make better use of my time.
In the end of the day I’m just glad to be able to look at my beautiful healthy children and my loving husband’s smile and see that we made through the day!!!
If you are just one more of me out there, because don’t lie to yourself, if at any moment when you were reading this blog you thought to yourself “I can relate” guess what?? Welcome to the club!You are a mom! =D

Lesson of the day: whatever was on the yesterday “to do” list, will make it to the next days list if was that important! Live today, and always give you best in everything you do! Everything else will fall into place in the right time! 😉

“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today. Mathew 6:34
X.O.X.O
Bianca.

Gym Gym Gym!!

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Gym Gym Gym!!

So I joined the Gym last week…I am dead my body is as mooched as ground beef lolss! So I go take a tour at the gym, Summer is coming and you know we all have those stubborn few pounds that we would not mind throwing away…I say throw away because when you say you lost it, that usually means that you”l find it some day! So I rather say I threw away or gave to someone very skinny hihihihihihihi!
So, I’m there and the girl that works there, very nice girl starts to ask me questions like, what made you come here o.0 automatically half of my brain is like…oh! because I have nothing to do anywhere else, so I decided to kill time here! But don’t worry I did not say that! My better judgement said, because I need to get in shape,Then she asks what was the good choices I make in my day to day _________o.0_______ I froze kkkkkk! And with a blank face I said tell me yours then I’ll say what’s mine, I swear this girl thought I was insane! lolsss so after she explained I said with a full chest that “I drink a lot of water!” lolsss as if that’s so abnormal lolss but hang on I was proud of myself! But that wasn’t the end, than it comes the dreadful question…what’s your worst choice? then I gave up, I said, listen, There’s no reason to lie about it, I’m only fooling myself! I love love love love did I say LOVE? that’s right I love McDonald’s and I’ll tell you something! I’ll work my butt off so I can eat McDonald’s at least once a week…she laughed!! Because she was the same lolssss! I love working out, I love the classes! The teachers are awesome, there’s this one teacher that she looked 20 years old and she screams in class “Come on! I had three children and that was worst than this class…keep in mind we were dying in there lolss and that she doesn’t have an inch of body fat lolsss! I hated her that moment! =D
So, I’m very happy although in pain, the only thing that I wish it was different was to have people that I know so they can come work out with me, I loved working out with one of my sister in laws.

In all this I’m trying to change my life. Change because I have one body,one life and no one but me is responsible for! So I say, come on Summer! =D

“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 And believe you me! I ask for his strength everyday or else I won’t achieve anything! And to Him be all the glory in all that I do!

“Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. ” 3 john 1

Ignorance it’s not always a bliss!

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Ignorance it's not always a bliss!

It make me sick to know how mean humans can be to animals. I think, if you can’t be caring and love something that’s only goal is to love you and be close to you, believe me, you must have a problem…a character problem! Sure, I understand that there are people that like them, but choose not to have a pet,believe me, I understand and applaud them, better not to have one if you can’t care for them than to have one and be careless and irresponsible.But To those that at the knowledge of you owning a pet they have a look of disgust, You must have something seriously wrong with you.
I’m sorry (but not sorry) if I hear someone tell me that they don’t like any kind of animal, that “all” pets are curses and a bunch of waste of time and demons that you bring to your house…yes, I’ve had people say that to me…and yes! I had the same “WTHeck” look you probably have right now! I honestly will not be close to them, why surround myself with no brain, thoughtless, cold heart ignorant people? My goodness it was as if my brain cells were shorting out at the sound of their voice lolsss, thank God my mother gave me manners all I did was nod my head and speechless. Well, honestly to speak out and be disrespectful and try to explain to them that all creations are good made by God and seem that they were good and that the reason that some animals go bad its not because they are bad, but because they had an ignorant owner wouldn’t matter to them, so sometimes the best thing to do is to be quiet.

“You don’t explain to a grunt how the shovel was made, you give them the shovel and tell them to dig, that’s all! lolsss

” A righteous man regards the life of his beast: but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel”Proverbs 12:10

“And God created great whales, and every living creature that moves, which the waters brought forth abundantly, after their kind, and every winged fowl after his kind: and God saw that it was good.” Genesis 1:21

Maybe just maybe these people should spend a little time learning from these so called “horrible” creatures how to forgive and forget, to simply appreciate each and everyday. To those that abandon and mistreat their pets, I only wish that someone would make them pay, because for them to do such evil things to those animals that cannot fend for themselves they must have some seriously evil things in them. God sees everything and in due time each one of us will answer for every act and choice we make.

what to learn: care for your pets, neuter/spay them NEVER abandon your pets.

Bia.

…because laughing is the best feeling!

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...because laughing is the best feeling!

Good morning everybody!! Is the time change bothering you as much as is bothering me ? Oh my gosh I look like a train wreck today lolsss! so bad that I feel like going to the gym RIGHT NOW!

My family is a crazy funny family! We laugh, we cry, we fight,but in the end we are all we have! Yesterday my husband saw the biggest raccoon ever in my backyard and with that brought memories of a time when I lived in T.O and my aunt and my brother came to visit me, and she accidentally ran over a raccoon, my brother was so shocked and she didn’t even stop lols! now, I don’t know if was out of shock or fear lolsss and I can actually imagine my brothers face lolssss than that brought back memories when I was young and a good childhood friend of ours were riding a bike at the park and suddenly he ran over a chipmunk, lolsss keep in mind we love animals all kinds of animals! Our friend was so chocked and so sad that he made my brother stop and sing the national anthem to the poor dead chipmunk hahahahahaha!Now, imagine two 12-13 boys standing beside a dead chipmonk holding their bikes and one of them singing the Oh! Canada! hilarious and sad at the same moment! = D Yes we care like that!

Childhood is something so important,I wish my children would have the same childhood me my brother and cousin had,we were free! No worries about anything, kids were kids, unfortunately it’s not like that now, or its just a motherly worry ? Well, yes! I worry about everything… I want my children to experience life, play as much as they can and laugh it off at the simplest things, for will come a time, anytime soon that they will grow (against my will, lolss just because I wish they stayed babies forever) and with adulthood comes worries and responsibilities,but for now, lets enjoy laughing away! =)

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens” Ecclesiastes 3:1

Well have a nice day everyone!

Cheerio’s

Bianca.